THE PSYCHOLOGY OF SEDUCTION

The psychology of seduction.

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Everybody finds happiness and well-being in his future. Most of the true happiness depends upon how much are you satisfied with the relationship being it with friend, lover and colleague. The main question arises in mind of every person that who has to be chosen for marry because if relationship gets wrong then it will give distress and provides the worst feeling.

According to the survey conducted in The United States 99 percent people want monogamous relationship. There are different aspects and one of the most prominent one is how to seduce a person or how to pull a right person of your choice.

As successful relationship is the key to happiness; it has also been proved academically, scientifically, and psychologically even if you have millions of dollars in your account you cannot stay with peace with wrong relationship. It does not matter, how you look, but it all about self-esteem, democratic way to pull a person towards you. It is not only about opposite sex, but it (seduction) also plays an important role in the same sex.

Researchers have conducted experiment on a one aspect of Social Psychology in this regard. The experiment was divided into three phases. In this experiment, in first phase students are instructed to date with girls and they have to agree with all the statements which girls would say. The results they found that agree with everything would make the moderate relationship not a long lasting relationship.

In second phase of the experiment students are instructed to disagree with everything. People could not make a proper relationship bond with dating person of opposite sex regardless of look and richness.

In third phase of the experiment participants are instructed to respond partially agree and partially disagree. The results were surprising in this phase people have made relationship bond more rigid and stronger than in previously two conditions. Because it has made conversation more understandable and attentive, this is an utmost aspect of seduction.

Although, it was just a game, however, it gave researchers to find out various aspects of seduction. The three main key phases that make a person seductive are; Attention, Interest and Maintenance.

In every relationship cycle of these factors is very crucial for long lasting relationship. Attention would lead to Interest and further Interest would go a step ahead to Maintenance phase. Attention means simply dating or follow, Interest means conversation and Maintenance means commitment for long time relationship. At every stage of the relationship a person has to follow this cycle for a good relationship.

The main fundamental for becoming a seductive is to fill the unmet desires of partners. It is not just to dance around the pole to attract opposite sex. If you are able to fulfill all the unmet need of the person then you really be a good seductive.